The only way the oil is getting into the intake is through the PCV valve, right? So, is an oil catch can at this point the simple answer? Vent the catch can to atmosphere (preferred?)? Or route the outlet from the catch can back into the intake (needed?)?
The majority of it is from that anyway. Under vacuum the manifold is pulling quite a bit of air, so any vapors get sucked in. It's pretty likely that a small amount also gets pulled into the turbo and intake, but that may be minimal.
Optimal setup in my opinion:
Deleted PCV with the hole plugged.
1 large (-12AN maybe (or multiple smaller ports)) port from the VC to a catch can
It's very important that this port is protected by baffling so you don't end up loosing actual oil over time.
With a vacuum pump pulling through the can
Of course, the vacuum pump is just a small bonus, something like that only comes in if you're making huge power or just struggling to keep the crank case depressurized.
Is this a cheap route? Not remotely... but you will have NOTHING going back into your engine.