I checked resistance between pin 6 and 14 on the obd and got 0
now what?
Some meters do a flashing 0 if there is no connectivity.
If you connect the meter's leads together does it display 0 too?
My meter will usually show 0.2 or 0.4 ohms with the leads touching.
If you truly have 0 ohms, then you have a short in your GM high speed LAN wires.
To track down where the short is, you could disconnect the power steering LAN wires, and check the resistance across the 2 LAN tan wires, then check resistance across the 2 LAN brown wires.
Keep tracing down the wiring diagram, until you find where the short is.
Here is the
GM LAN wiring points for my 2006 SS SC donor... after I thinned the wires.
The PCM should have 120 ohms resistance, and I'm not sure where the other 120 ohm resistor is... maybe the power steering box.