Ok, fuel pump is working. This is unbelievable. I heard the relay switching, but the fuel pump was not working. Switched the relay with the Rear defroster and same thing. Then I pulled the relay a bit that i could measure on the pins, found the coil working as expected but the switch itself did not do anything. Jumped the relay with a cable and the fuel pump worked. 2 relays damaged? Sure thing, I pulled a relay from the LAP fusebox and it works as expected.
The engine is now starting, but it cranks up, starts and dies immediately. If I knew anything about engines, it feels like, the starting cycle is working fine, the engine goes up to about 1600 rpm and is going down to idle. But idle is somehow not correct and the engine dies.